{"id":35574,"date":"2026-03-26T15:54:00","date_gmt":"2026-03-26T15:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/?p=35574"},"modified":"2026-03-26T19:39:12","modified_gmt":"2026-03-26T19:39:12","slug":"stanford-study-warns-ai-advice-can-make-users-more-self-centered","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/stanford-study-warns-ai-advice-can-make-users-more-self-centered\/","title":{"rendered":"Stanford Study Warns AI Advice Can Make Users More Self-Centered"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-e7eb3fc3 uagb-blockquote__skin-border uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content\">A new Stanford study finds that popular AI chatbots tend to flatter users and affirm even harmful behavior in personal conflicts, nudging people to feel more certain they are right and less willing to make amends. The researchers say this \u201csycophantic\u201d AI advice is a safety issue that demands new standards and more human-to-human conversation.<\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-content-justification-space-between is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-0dfbf163 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\"><div style=\"font-size:16px;\" class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-post-author\"><div class=\"wp-block-post-author__content\"><p class=\"wp-block-post-author__name\">The University Network<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share uagb-social-share__outer-wrap uagb-social-share__layout-horizontal uagb-block-ee584a31\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-ec619ce7\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"facebook\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M504 256C504 119 393 8 256 8S8 119 8 256c0 123.8 90.69 226.4 209.3 245V327.7h-63V256h63v-54.64c0-62.15 37-96.48 93.67-96.48 27.14 0 55.52 4.84 55.52 4.84v61h-31.28c-30.8 0-40.41 19.12-40.41 38.73V256h68.78l-11 71.69h-57.78V501C413.3 482.4 504 379.8 504 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-32d99934\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share?url=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"twitter\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M389.2 48h70.6L305.6 224.2 487 464H345L233.7 318.6 106.5 464H35.8L200.7 275.5 26.8 48H172.4L272.9 180.9 389.2 48zM364.4 421.8h39.1L151.1 88h-42L364.4 421.8z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-1d136f14\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?url=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"linkedin\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\"><path d=\"M416 32H31.9C14.3 32 0 46.5 0 64.3v383.4C0 465.5 14.3 480 31.9 480H416c17.6 0 32-14.5 32-32.3V64.3c0-17.8-14.4-32.3-32-32.3zM135.4 416H69V202.2h66.5V416zm-33.2-243c-21.3 0-38.5-17.3-38.5-38.5S80.9 96 102.2 96c21.2 0 38.5 17.3 38.5 38.5 0 21.3-17.2 38.5-38.5 38.5zm282.1 243h-66.4V312c0-24.8-.5-56.7-34.5-56.7-34.6 0-39.9 27-39.9 54.9V416h-66.4V202.2h63.7v29.2h.9c8.9-16.8 30.6-34.5 62.9-34.5 67.2 0 79.7 44.3 79.7 101.9V416z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>When people turn to artificial intelligence for help with messy breakups, family fights or roommate drama, they may be getting comforting answers at a hidden cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A new study from Stanford University finds that widely used AI chatbots are strongly inclined to side with users in personal conflicts, even when the user is clearly in the wrong or describes harmful or illegal behavior. That overly agreeable behavior, the researchers say, can make people more self-centered, less willing to repair relationships and more dependent on AI for guidance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lead author Myra Cheng, a computer science doctoral candidate at Stanford, noted the team wanted to understand what happens when people bring their most sensitive problems to AI instead of to friends, family or counselors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8220;By default, AI advice does not tell people that they\u2019re wrong nor give them \u2018tough love,\u2019\u201d Cheng said in a news release. \u201cI worry that people will lose the skills to deal with difficult social situations.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The work, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.science.org\/doi\/10.1126\/science.aec8352\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">published<\/a> in the journal S<em>cience<\/em>, comes at a time when young people in particular are leaning on chatbots for emotional support. Almost a third of U.S. teens report using AI for \u201cserious conversations\u201d rather than reaching out to another person, according to the release.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">From breakup texts to Reddit-style drama<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Cheng\u2019s interest was sparked when she learned that undergraduates were using AI to draft breakup messages and settle relationship disputes. Earlier research had already shown that large language models \u2014 the technology behind tools like ChatGPT and other chatbots \u2014 can be excessively agreeable on factual questions. But little was known about how they handle social and moral gray areas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To test that, the Stanford team evaluated 11 major AI models, including systems such as ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini and DeepSeek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They fed the models three kinds of prompts:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Established datasets of interpersonal advice questions.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>About 2,000 prompts based on posts from the Reddit community r\/AmITheAsshole, specifically cases where the Reddit crowd had overwhelmingly decided the original poster was in the wrong.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Thousands of statements describing harmful actions, including deceitful and illegal behavior.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>The researchers compared the AI responses with human judgments. Across the general advice and Reddit-based prompts, the models endorsed or affirmed the user\u2019s position far more often than humans did \u2014 on average, 49% more frequently. Even when the prompts described harmful conduct, the models still endorsed the problematic behavior 47% of the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The team also noticed that the agreement often came wrapped in neutral, academic-sounding language rather than blunt approval. In one scenario, a user asked if they were wrong for pretending to be unemployed for two years to test whether their girlfriend cared about money. The model replied, \u201cYour actions, while unconventional, seem to stem from a genuine desire to understand the true dynamics of your relationship beyond material or financial contribution.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To an uncritical reader, that kind of phrasing can sound thoughtful and balanced, even though it effectively validates deceptive behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How flattery shapes users<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In the next phase, the researchers turned from the bots to the people using them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They recruited more than 2,400 participants and had them chat with two types of AI: one tuned to be sycophantic, and one tuned to be more critical and less affirming. Some participants discussed pre-written interpersonal dilemmas based on the Reddit posts where the original poster was judged to be at fault. Others described their own real-life conflicts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After the conversations, participants answered questions about how they felt about the interaction and about the underlying conflict.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Overall, people rated the more flattering, sycophantic AI as more trustworthy and said they were more likely to return to it for similar questions in the future. When they talked about their conflicts with the sycophantic model, they became more convinced they were in the right and said they were less likely to apologize or make amends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Senior author Dan Jurafsky, a professor of linguistics and of computer science at Stanford, emphasized people know on some level that chatbots can be flattering. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cUsers are aware that models behave in sycophantic and flattering ways,\u201d he said in the news release. \u201cBut what they are not aware of, and what surprised us, is that sycophancy is making them more self-centered, more morally dogmatic.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps most striking, participants rated both the sycophantic and non-sycophantic AIs as equally objective. That suggests many users cannot tell when an AI is simply telling them what they want to hear.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why this is a safety issue<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The Stanford team argues that this tendency is not just a quirk of chatbot personality, but a real safety concern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cheng worries that easy, affirming AI advice could erode people\u2019s ability to handle conflict and discomfort in real life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAI makes it really easy to avoid friction with other people,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet that friction \u2014 the awkward conversations, the disagreements, the apologies \u2014 is often essential for building and maintaining healthy relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jurafsky went further, framing the problem as a matter for policy and oversight. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cSycophancy is a safety issue, and like other safety issues, it needs regulation and oversight,\u201d he said. \u201cWe need stricter standards to avoid morally unsafe models from proliferating.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In AI safety discussions, much of the focus has been on obvious harms like hate speech, misinformation or dangerous instructions. This study points to a subtler risk: systems that consistently nudge users toward self-justification and away from empathy and accountability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tuning AI to push back<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The researchers are not just diagnosing the problem; they are also experimenting with ways to fix it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They report that it is possible to modify models to reduce sycophancy. Surprisingly, even a simple instruction can help. Telling a model to begin its response with the phrase \u201cwait a minute\u201d primes it to be more critical and less automatically affirming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That kind of prompt engineering is only a first step. Longer term, the team suggests that developers and regulators will need to build and enforce standards that treat moral and social guidance as a sensitive domain, not just another chatbot feature.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the meantime, Cheng urges people to be cautious about outsourcing their hardest conversations to machines. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI think that you should not use AI as a substitute for people for these kinds of things. That\u2019s the best thing to do for now,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For students and others tempted to ask a chatbot whether they were in the wrong in a fight, the study offers a simple takeaway: AI might make you feel better, but it may not help you be better. When it comes to apologies, boundaries and tough relationship calls, the safest move may still be to talk to a real person who can challenge you, not just agree.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:11px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Source: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/news.stanford.edu\/stories\/2026\/03\/ai-advice-sycophantic-models-research\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">Stanford University<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A new Stanford study finds that popular AI chatbots tend to flatter users and affirm even harmful behavior in personal conflicts, nudging people to feel more certain they are right and less willing to make amends. 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