{"id":22930,"date":"2025-04-23T14:57:00","date_gmt":"2025-04-23T14:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/?p=22930"},"modified":"2025-04-23T14:57:02","modified_gmt":"2025-04-23T14:57:02","slug":"parents-divided-on-when-to-discuss-puberty-with-children-survey-shows","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/parents-divided-on-when-to-discuss-puberty-with-children-survey-shows\/","title":{"rendered":"Parents Divided on When to Discuss Puberty With Children, Survey Shows"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-e7eb3fc3 uagb-blockquote__skin-border uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content\">A new poll by the University of Michigan reveals that parents are divided on the appropriate age to discuss puberty with their children, with experts recommending earlier and more proactive conversations to ease the transition.<\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-content-justification-space-between is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-b0ffac9c wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\"><div style=\"font-size:16px\" class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-post-author\"><div class=\"wp-block-post-author__content\"><p class=\"wp-block-post-author__name\">The University Network<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share uagb-social-share__outer-wrap uagb-social-share__layout-horizontal uagb-block-ee584a31\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-ec619ce7\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"facebook\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M504 256C504 119 393 8 256 8S8 119 8 256c0 123.8 90.69 226.4 209.3 245V327.7h-63V256h63v-54.64c0-62.15 37-96.48 93.67-96.48 27.14 0 55.52 4.84 55.52 4.84v61h-31.28c-30.8 0-40.41 19.12-40.41 38.73V256h68.78l-11 71.69h-57.78V501C413.3 482.4 504 379.8 504 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-32d99934\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share?url=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"twitter\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M389.2 48h70.6L305.6 224.2 487 464H345L233.7 318.6 106.5 464H35.8L200.7 275.5 26.8 48H172.4L272.9 180.9 389.2 48zM364.4 421.8h39.1L151.1 88h-42L364.4 421.8z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-1d136f14\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?url=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"linkedin\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\"><path d=\"M416 32H31.9C14.3 32 0 46.5 0 64.3v383.4C0 465.5 14.3 480 31.9 480H416c17.6 0 32-14.5 32-32.3V64.3c0-17.8-14.4-32.3-32-32.3zM135.4 416H69V202.2h66.5V416zm-33.2-243c-21.3 0-38.5-17.3-38.5-38.5S80.9 96 102.2 96c21.2 0 38.5 17.3 38.5 38.5 0 21.3-17.2 38.5-38.5 38.5zm282.1 243h-66.4V312c0-24.8-.5-56.7-34.5-56.7-34.6 0-39.9 27-39.9 54.9V416h-66.4V202.2h63.7v29.2h.9c8.9-16.8 30.6-34.5 62.9-34.5 67.2 0 79.7 44.3 79.7 101.9V416z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A recent national poll from the University of Michigan Health C.S. Mott Children\u2019s Hospital reveals that while parents understand the importance of discussing puberty with their children, they remain divided on the best age to begin these conversations and how to approach the topic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The <a href=\"https:\/\/mottpoll.org\/reports\/approaching-puberty-talking-tweens-about-body-changes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">survey<\/a> highlights a common parental dilemma: initiating discussions about puberty and determining whether to include information about sex. Parents surveyed were split evenly among those who believe the conversation should start before age 10, at 10, or later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cIt\u2019s easy to assume a child is too young for conversations about puberty, but many parents are surprised to find their tween already showing signs of puberty or asking unexpected questions about body changes,\u201d Sarah Clark, co-director of the Mott Poll, said in a news release. \u201cStarting the conversation early gives parents a chance to shape the message in an age-appropriate way and help kids know what to expect, so they\u2019re not confused or anxious. If parents don\u2019t open the door to these talks, kids may get their information elsewhere, like from classmates, social media, or what they see on TV.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Various approaches and concerns were shared by parents in the poll. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Half of the parents described their method of discussing puberty as proactive, whereas two out of five only bring it up when asked by their child. A small percentage, around 5%, avoid the topic entirely.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Embarrassment and fear of saying the wrong thing are significant barriers, with one in five parents admitting to feeling embarrassed and one in six worrying about their choice of words. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Moreover, a quarter of parents with children aged 10-12 noted that their children were disinterested in the topic, while nearly a third of parents with kids aged 7-9 believed their children were too young to comprehend the changes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mottpoll-kids-puberty-parent-talks-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-23036\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mottpoll-kids-puberty-parent-talks-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mottpoll-kids-puberty-parent-talks-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mottpoll-kids-puberty-parent-talks-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/mottpoll-kids-puberty-parent-talks.jpg 1090w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Credit:<\/em> C.S. Mott Children&#8217;s Hospital<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:6px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Clark pointed out that parents\u2019 own upbringing might influence their hesitation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cWhether they realize it or not parents may bring their own experiences into their parenting approach,\u201d she added. \u201cMany parents said they had little or no discussion of puberty when they were young. If puberty was treated as an awkward or embarrassing subject growing up, that can make it harder to know how to begin.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Another common concern is the appropriate timing and scope for discussing sex and reproduction. Clark advises starting with basic information about physical and emotional changes, then gradually introducing more complex topics over time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parents are encouraged to utilize resources such as parenting books and to leverage annual check-ups with their child\u2019s physician as opportunities for education. Involvement in their child&#8217;s school-based health education programs can also provide a foundation for further discussions at home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Despite the challenges, about half of the parents expressed confidence in recognizing the signs of puberty, especially among those with children aged 10-12. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, less assured parents, particularly those with younger children, indicated they were uncertain about what changes to look out for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Clark notes the importance of seizing teachable moments to discuss puberty and suggests that ongoing, supportive discussions are crucial as children progress through different stages. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cPuberty isn\u2019t just about physical changes \u2014 it\u2019s also a time of emotional disruption, which can make open communication challenging,\u201d added Clark. \u201cMany tweens feel embarrassed or uncomfortable talking with their parents about these changes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To alleviate discomfort, Clark recommends offering children age-appropriate books or videos on the subject, allowing them to explore the information privately before engaging in further family discussions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As parents navigate the complex terrain of puberty education, the consensus from experts remains clear: early, open and ongoing communication is key to helping children feel supported and informed during this critical stage of development.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:20px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Source: <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.michiganmedicine.org\/health-lab\/puberty-talk-parents-split-best-age-talk-about-body-changes-kids\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">Michigan Medicine<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A recent national poll from the University of Michigan Health C.S. 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