{"id":15352,"date":"2025-01-16T20:41:52","date_gmt":"2025-01-16T20:41:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/?p=15352"},"modified":"2025-01-16T20:41:53","modified_gmt":"2025-01-16T20:41:53","slug":"new-study-shows-how-parental-favoritism-shapes-family-dynamics","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/home\/new-study-shows-how-parental-favoritism-shapes-family-dynamics\/","title":{"rendered":"New Study Shows How Parental Favoritism Shapes Family Dynamics"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-blockquote uagb-block-e7eb3fc3 uagb-blockquote__skin-border uagb-blockquote__stack-img-none\"><blockquote class=\"uagb-blockquote\"><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__content\">A BYU-led study shows how parents unintentionally favor certain children based on birth order, personality and gender, affecting family dynamics and children&#8217;s well-being.<\/div><footer><div class=\"uagb-blockquote__author-wrap uagb-blockquote__author-at-left\"><\/div><\/footer><\/blockquote><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-content-justification-space-between is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-b0ffac9c wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\"><div style=\"font-size:16px\" class=\"has-text-align-left wp-block-post-author\"><div class=\"wp-block-post-author__content\"><p class=\"wp-block-post-author__name\">The University Network<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share uagb-social-share__outer-wrap uagb-social-share__layout-horizontal uagb-block-ee584a31\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-ec619ce7\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"facebook\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M504 256C504 119 393 8 256 8S8 119 8 256c0 123.8 90.69 226.4 209.3 245V327.7h-63V256h63v-54.64c0-62.15 37-96.48 93.67-96.48 27.14 0 55.52 4.84 55.52 4.84v61h-31.28c-30.8 0-40.41 19.12-40.41 38.73V256h68.78l-11 71.69h-57.78V501C413.3 482.4 504 379.8 504 256z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-32d99934\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share?url=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"twitter\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\"><path d=\"M389.2 48h70.6L305.6 224.2 487 464H345L233.7 318.6 106.5 464H35.8L200.7 275.5 26.8 48H172.4L272.9 180.9 389.2 48zM364.4 421.8h39.1L151.1 88h-42L364.4 421.8z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-uagb-social-share-child uagb-ss-repeater uagb-ss__wrapper uagb-block-1d136f14\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__link\" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/shareArticle?url=\" tabindex=\"0\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"linkedin\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-wrap\"><span class=\"uagb-ss__source-icon\"><svg xmlns=\"https:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\"><path d=\"M416 32H31.9C14.3 32 0 46.5 0 64.3v383.4C0 465.5 14.3 480 31.9 480H416c17.6 0 32-14.5 32-32.3V64.3c0-17.8-14.4-32.3-32-32.3zM135.4 416H69V202.2h66.5V416zm-33.2-243c-21.3 0-38.5-17.3-38.5-38.5S80.9 96 102.2 96c21.2 0 38.5 17.3 38.5 38.5 0 21.3-17.2 38.5-38.5 38.5zm282.1 243h-66.4V312c0-24.8-.5-56.7-34.5-56.7-34.6 0-39.9 27-39.9 54.9V416h-66.4V202.2h63.7v29.2h.9c8.9-16.8 30.6-34.5 62.9-34.5 67.2 0 79.7 44.3 79.7 101.9V416z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siblings often ponder who the favorite child is, igniting playful rivalries and contentious debates around the family dinner table. New enlightening research led by Brigham Young University (BYU), <a href=\"https:\/\/www.apa.org\/pubs\/journals\/releases\/bul-bul0000458.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">published<\/a> in Psychological Bulletin, digs deep into this common query, revealing how parental favoritism subtly rooted in birth order, personality and gender can influence family dynamics and sibling relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The study, spearheaded by Alex Jensen, a professor from BYU&#8217;s School of Family Life, uncovered that younger siblings typically receive more favorable treatment from their parents. In contrast, the oldest children tend to gain more autonomy as they grow, with parental control loosening over time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;It is helpful to take the findings from this study and be aware of the patterns that could be happening in your family,\u201d Jensen said in a <a href=\"https:\/\/news.byu.edu\/intellect\/do-parents-really-have-a-favorite-child-heres-what-new-research-from-byu-says\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">news release<\/a>. \u201cWhen parents are aware, they can make small adjustments that benefit everyone.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Interestingly, the research unveiled that daughters are slightly more favored than sons, a bias more evident to parents than children. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Personality traits also emerged as a significant factor, with agreeable and responsible kids enjoying more favorable treatment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cMost parents probably connect more easily with one child over another, whether that be due to personality, birth order, gender or other things like shared interests,\u201d Jensen added. \u201cWatch for those patterns within yourself. Pay attention to how your children react to things that could be perceived as favoritism.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This study carries critical implications for child well-being, not just sibling rivalry. Jensen&#8217;s other research indicates that children who perceive themselves as less favored by their parents may endure poorer mental health and display problematic behaviors.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cKeep an eye out for things that seem unfair. Your children will let you know if they think something is unfair. Pay attention to them when they make that known,\u201d added Jensen. \u201cEither they are missing perspective and understanding, or you need to make some changes in your parenting. Make sure you are open to the latter.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To arrive at these conclusions, Jensen and his team analyzed data from over 19,000 individuals, extracting insights from various published and unpublished sources. This extensive dataset provided a comprehensive understanding of how parental preferences affect children throughout their lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cSometimes parents get so concerned about treating their kids the same that they may overlook individual needs,\u201d Jensen added. \u201cWe\u2019re not suggesting parents feel guilty; instead, parents can look at this research and use it as encouragement to look at places where they can improve, without going to extremes.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jensen hopes this study sparks awareness about often-overlooked family dynamics. Favoritism, whether intentional or not, can significantly shape sibling relationships and individual well-being. By recognizing these patterns, parents can strengthen family ties meaningfully.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cThe simple answers are perhaps the best. Be patient with yourself and with your children,\u201d Jensen concluded. \u201cSpend time together. Do things together that you like to do. Do things together that your children like to do. Work together, serve others together, worship together. Relationships take time and time together doing a variety of things will have many positive benefits.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Siblings often ponder who the favorite child is, igniting playful rivalries and contentious debates around the family dinner table. 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