{"id":24336,"date":"2018-06-05T16:54:00","date_gmt":"2018-06-05T20:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/blog\/?p=24336"},"modified":"2021-04-27T11:03:21","modified_gmt":"2021-04-27T15:03:21","slug":"accidental-social-exclusions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/blog\/accidental-social-exclusions\/","title":{"rendered":"Here’s How You Can Avoid Accidental Social Exclusions"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ostracism, or social exclusion, is thought to be an intentional method to punish disagreeable, awkward, or unwanted members in a group. For instance, if someone is seen as freeloading or annoying, they might be excluded from different social circles or events. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

But, according to researchers <\/span>Bj\u00f6rn Lindstr\u00f6m<\/span><\/a> and <\/span>Philippe Tobler<\/span><\/a> from the Department of Economics at the University of Zurich,<\/span> ostracism can also exist in a completely <\/span>unintentional way<\/span><\/a>, when there is no need to discipline the actions of another. <\/span><\/p>\n

In these situations, ostracism happens accidentally, and those who are doing the excluding aren\u2019t even aware of their actions. <\/span><\/p>\n

The study is published in the journal <\/span>Nature Human Behaviour<\/span><\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n

Unintentional ostracism <\/b><\/h2>\n

So, how does unintentional ostracism happen? <\/span><\/p>\n

Through a series of experiments with 456 students, the researchers found that social exclusion can actually be a side effect of people having positive experiences with others, and repeating what they know. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cWe conducted experiments based on behavioral economics \u2018games,\u2019 where people selected partners (other participants) for interaction and made choices in these interactions,\u201d said <\/span>Lindstr\u00f6m.<\/span><\/p>\n

The researchers found that initial connections played a big role in how people paired themselves. In other words, if the first random grouping worked out well, people were likely to stick with it and repeat the same groupings. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThe tendency to repeat what previously worked out well is a basic aspect of human psychology, which means that we stick to satisfactory groupings,\u201d said Lindstr\u00f6m in a statement. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

However, this lead to others being excluded from the interaction, and therefore, unintentionally ostracized. <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201c<\/span>Cliques, e.g. of classmates, that exist at the beginning of the school year are usually still the same at the end of the year,\u201d Lindstr\u00f6m said in a statement. \u201cOr, at work, it sometimes takes years for us to realize that the person a few offices further down the hall is actually a great guy. He simply wasn\u2019t part of one our first few interactions and then fell off our radar.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

Unfortunately, this misperception can lead to people feeling left out.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cBeing ostracized\/less popular was strongly related to the subjective feeling of being left out or meaningless,\u201d said Lindstr\u00f6m. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ostracism can be prevented <\/b><\/h2>\n

However, the researchers found that unintended ostracism can be prevented just as easily as it can happen. <\/span><\/p>\n

One way to avoid it is to be more open-minded.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThey [people] can strive to interact with people they do not already know, and be \u2018open minded\u2019 to new and unknown people,\u201d <\/span>Lindstr\u00f6m said.<\/span><\/p>\n

The researchers also believe that teachers, or those involved in group organizations, can reduce ostracism by making sure that people experience one-on-one pairings and personal interactions with various people early on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Additionally, the researchers stress the importance of striving for early-on positive interactions. So, for adults who might be nervous about their next networking event, the researchers suggest <\/span>\u201cbreaking the ice.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cIt could be worth making the first move and breaking the ice,\u201d Tobler said in a statement. \u201cThen the rest of the event will probably go much more smoothly.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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