{"id":19293,"date":"2017-04-26T16:46:05","date_gmt":"2017-04-26T20:46:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/blog\/?p=19293"},"modified":"2017-04-26T16:47:00","modified_gmt":"2017-04-26T20:47:00","slug":"8-tips-for-a-successful-roommate-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tun.com\/blog\/8-tips-for-a-successful-roommate-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Tips for a Successful Roommate Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"

Most college freshmen start this new chapter of their life with a burning question in mind: what if my roommate and I don\u2019t get along?<\/strong> It\u2019s natural to wonder, but there are things you can do to ensure a good roommate relationship. Obviously, it\u2019s nerve-racking to think about sharing such close quarters with a complete stranger, but it\u2019s important to go into college with an open mind. You and your roommate might end up becoming lifelong friends!<\/span><\/p>\n

Check out the following tips to see how you can make your relationship with your roommate as enjoyable as possible.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Clear Communication from the Start<\/b><\/span><\/h5>\n

Clear communication is the key to avoid conflicts, so have an honest conversation with your roommate before you move in, which will help both of you sort out each other\u2019s expectations. Living in an on-campus dorm means that you\u2019ll be sharing a small space for a long time, and you\u2019ll need to respect each other\u2019s needs and expectations. Don\u2019t wait for your roommate to figure out your likes and dislikes. Having a conversation from the get-go about your preferences will save you both many arguments. Be considerate of your roommate(s), and you will likely get consideration in return. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Solve Problems Immediately<\/b><\/span><\/h5>\n

Solve problems while they\u2019re still small<\/a>; don\u2019t wait to see if it\u2019ll just go away. It\u2019s important to address the situation immediately since you will likely be seeing your roommate every day, and you don\u2019t want the tension to build up. Is your roommate doing something that\u2019s bothering you? If so, tell her. Instead of being passive-aggressive and waiting for your roommate to figure out what she\u2019s doing wrong, just let her know! After all, your roommate may not even be aware that there is a problem. Also, it\u2019s a whole lot easier to solve a problem when it\u2019s small than to wait until all your frustration builds up. <\/span><\/p>\n

<\/b>3. Be Respectful of Your Roommate\u2019s Stuff<\/b><\/span><\/h5>\n

It\u2019s very important to remember that your roommate\u2019s stuff is NOT yours. Just because you are sharing a living space, doesn\u2019t mean you can use your roommate\u2019s belongings whenever you please. This is probably the most common problem that arises between college roommates. Always ask for permission before borrowing, or using, any of your roommate\u2019s stuff!<\/span><\/p>\n

4. Avoid Constantly Inviting People Over<\/b><\/span><\/h5>\n

You might love being surrounded by people, but that might not be the case for your roommate. Your roommate may need some quiet time and find it annoying if you keep bringing a group of friends into your room. Bringing friends over once or twice is understandable, but it\u2019s important to remember that your room is also another person\u2019s room and you need to be considerate. You should talk to your roommate about this and make sure you don\u2019t step on any boundaries when bringing friends over. <\/span><\/p>\n

5. Lock Your Door<\/b><\/span><\/h5>\n

Locking your door and windows is important for safety: yours and your roommate\u2019s as well as the property that belong to you both. When you leave your door unlocked, you\u2019re not only risking your valuables, but also your roommate\u2019s. Imagine that your roommate steps out for a moment and forgets to lock the door, and you come home to find your laptop missing. How do you think you would feel about your roommate afterwards? Be mindful of safety concerns and lock the door and windows.<\/span><\/p>\n

<\/b>6. Give Your Roommate Some Space<\/b><\/span><\/h5>\n

Be friendly with your roommate, but respect each other\u2019s space. Trying to force a close relationship will only cause strain for you both. You and your roommate will be spending a lot of time together just in your room, so it\u2019s important to give each other a break. One key element to having a healthy roommate relationship is for both of you to have your own life and social circles. <\/span><\/p>\n

<\/b>7. Have an Open Mind<\/b><\/span><\/h5>\n

It\u2019s possible that your roommate may have a completely different background. She may be from another culture with a lifestyle and perspective that\u2019s very different from yours. Be open to this new outlook and respect the differences. If you do this, you\u2019ll find it rewarding to experience the diversity that your roommate brings. Also, college is a time for growth and it is likely that you and your roommate will change a lot during your time together. Be aware of these changes and accept them, rather than holding on to the past. <\/span><\/p>\n

8. Treat Your Roommate with Respect<\/b><\/span><\/h5>\n

Sharing a room with another person can certainly be challenging, and you may sometimes have trouble finding a way to solve a problem between you. When this happens, always follow the Golden Rule and treat your roommate the way you you want to be treated. If you treat your roommate with respect all the time, you\u2019ll have no regrets. <\/span><\/p>\n

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